In the world of computers, binary language is the foundation of all programming. A simple 0 or 1, yes or no, dictates the flow of information and decision-making processes. But what happens when we apply this binary thinking to human life? Do the complexities of human experience fit neatly into such sharp differences? As I…
Saying no is a powerful tool for setting boundaries, prioritizing self-worth, and fostering healthy relationships. In this guide, we’ll explore the importance of saying no, its benefits, and how to implement it in your daily life. I vividly remember a podcast episode that struck a chord with me. A 23-year-old entrepreneur shared his story of…
At times, you want to be alone. Not lonely just alone. To silence the world around you and just be. This weekend, that’s exactly what I did. No Instagram. No WhatsApp. No endless scrolling. I logged out not just from the apps, but from the chaos. And it wasn’t some grand act of discipline or…
Have you ever noticed how sometimes, what someone’s body says is louder than their words? A quick glance, a crossed arm, or a subtle smile can reveal more about how a person feels than any conversation. Body language is a powerful tool that can convey emotions, intentions, and attitudes. The Power of Nonverbal Cues I…
There are lies we tell the world. But the most dangerous ones are the lies we tell ourselves—quiet, convenient, and often convincing enough to feel like truth. “I’m fine.” “It didn’t hurt.” “It doesn’t matter anymore.” We say them without flinching, sometimes even with a smile. Not because they’re true, but because they’re easier. Because…
In the quiet moments, it’s easy to get lost in thought. The mind wanders, and questions arise. What lies beneath the surface of our everyday lives? What secrets do our thoughts and emotions hold? Some nights, the world outside seems peaceful, yet the inner world is a battleground. A thousand thoughts fight for attention, each…
I remember this day in particular. It was during our youth service in the church I fellowship. I don’t recall the preaching in full, but something caught my attention. The preacher stood at the pulpit, his eyes scanning through the congregation as he talked about soul ties. (I chuckled softly to myself.) I’ve never been…
Campus life—some say it’s just a phase, just four years to get through before the “real world.” But what if those years are more than just a timeline? What if they’re the quiet moments on a cold bench, the lost and found dreams, the battles with distraction, and the slow, sometimes messy, transformation of who…
We’re often told to cling to our heritage — to never forget our roots. Culture, tradition and values which are all deeply embedded in how we’re raised, especially in African homes. But when holding on to heritage means silencing important conversations, we have to ask: Are we also holding on to ignorance? One of the…
Some letters bring closure. Others bring clarity. And some… just bring me back to myself. So no, I won’t send these letters. But I’ll keep them. Not as evidence of pain—but as proof of growth.
